I look like Nina-chan.

Please consult an expert.

>>8

Even if there are developmental tendencies upon examination, it seems that people are diagnosed to fall within the range of being healthy.

>>11

Do you really think that healthy people without a specific disease name cannot receive welfare…?

>>5

At that time, the term ADHD wasn’t widely known, so I convinced myself it was at a “level where you can’t get a diagnosis,” but this child definitely has ADHD at a level where they can receive a diagnosis.

It is suggested that Nina will be able to receive a diagnosis in a few years, but it seems that there are still many people who are lingering in a state where they cannot receive a diagnosis because they are slightly better off.

If you can’t make long-term life plans like saving money or getting promoted, this is how it tends to end up.

>>9

I wasn’t able to make any plans at all during the exam period.

I still can’t make long-term plans.

It seems that the appearance isn’t bad, and if only they had the sense not to sell their bodies, they might have had the option to have a family.

By the time it gets to this point, even if you catch a guy, you’ll only be treated as a source of money or a casual friend with benefits.

>>10

Because I’m a host, I don’t sell my body.

There is also an ethics that only does not cross the line of being just barely acceptable.

>>16

I think it’s just that they’re keeping someone below them at a halfway point.

I’m also exactly stuck in the interpersonal relationship reset syndrome.

I’ve had various jobs thanks to people who recognized my abilities, but none of them lasted, and I’ve ended up losing contact and quitting all of them.

I don’t want to go back to a related industry or manufacturer, and after repeating that, I’ve ended up with nowhere to go and became a nameless professional.

It seems to be a problem that cannot be resolved simply through vocational training, but rather is entirely a matter of personality…

This is my diary.

>>12

I’ve seen someone making money on a bulletin board for the first time.

People who do not know or refuse to accept what can be received, like the homeless in the Heisei era, are being overlooked.

If you have the intelligence to learn on your own, you can manage anything.

I don’t know if it exists or not, but if you’re going to receive welfare, what are you going to do about it…

Training to endure not suddenly getting fed up and resetting human relationships?

>>21

The easiest option is a counselor or psychiatrist.

>>22

I see… It doesn’t quite resonate with me as an amateur, though.

Doctors are professionals, so I wonder if things will go well if they can effectively resolve the emotional aspects.

>>21

The thread’s image is stuck with the symptoms of development, so it’s just fitting it into the existing terms of the time; resetting human relationships is not the essence.

In the context of this page, it’s not a relationship reset syndrome but simply an escape from reality because one can no longer endure the stress.

The issue is that counseling is basically not covered by insurance, and it’s difficult to make reservations, so it’s not something that can be easily accessed.

I like the appearance the most, by far.

I understand that doctors don’t cure everything related to mental health.

I understand that the doctor’s role is to support the patient, provided that the patient has the intention and effort to heal.

But I also think that the current situation exists because the person themselves can’t do anything about it…

Since Nina-chan is a university graduate, she can manage to pass through interviews at decent companies, so there are probably quite a few anonymous users who feel a sense of familiarity just from the posted pages and then get let down.

>>34

For me, university was the toughest; I ended up staying longer than usual.

Once I got a job, everything worked out.

Nina, your face is so good that at that point you can’t even line up.

It’s not that there aren’t problems that could be troublesome, like living normally but finding it difficult.

Whether the thread image is that or not

This person has ADHD, so even if they go to social services, it won’t get better.

>>37

We have no choice but to compromise.

>>37

There are good medications for ADHD.

It’s not ASD.

Nina-chan can quickly get a boyfriend who is either understanding or malicious.

Well, if you say that anywhere you go is hell, there are surprisingly places where you can manage to get by.

Resetting aside, I feel like trying a few things could be worthwhile.

>>40

That’s survival bias.

Most of them quietly perish without fitting in anywhere, without a voice.

>>49

It’s not that ordinary people change jobs because they can’t fit in; they end up leaving because there’s no other choice.

Exhausted

I don’t want to drag out relationships.

>>41

It was definitely easier in the era where you either killed or were killed upon meeting.

The hardest part is being attacked yet not receiving any help.

It’s unrelated, but I was shocked to find out in the Magapoke comments that the headband Nina-chan borrowed from Yamada is estimated to be over 100,000 yen.

>>44

Which brand is it?

>>46

It seems that Myau Myau is like Mew Mew.

>>47

Ah, Mew Mew, as expected of a cabaret girl.

I’m proud to say that I’m the type who’s actually smart, so I efficiently handle things on my own and have been slacking off with the extra time. I’m starting to get in trouble more often, so I should probably jump ship.

It would be nice if the girl was picked up by an understanding partner, but it seems that she is more likely to be taken advantage of by a man who exploits young women.

Because they roll into environments with bad people.

>>53

Even if he picks you up with understanding, there are many cases where he will abandon you afterward.

If I were to awkwardly get married and have kids, I would be on the fast track to becoming a poor single mom.

There isn’t even a person who understands the opposite.

If you’re a woman, there’s a chance, but for a man with a mild disability, it’s really tough.

Moreover, this side expresses dissatisfaction towards society.

>>56

If a woman doesn’t have a face as good as Yamada’s, she doesn’t even have a chance.

Even a man with mild intellectual disability can be cherished by others if he is cheerful and has a good personality.

I think that an unattractive woman who is barely okay is the same as an unattractive man who is barely okay.

I wonder what to do about boundary intelligence… really.

>>59

From here on, if you keep cutting it off, there will appear people who are just a little above the infinite standard!

…Isn’t it because the workload demanded by society exceeds that of the average person?

>>62

That’s true.

In the past, there weren’t many jobs that would give rise to such words.

It feels like this started happening after the advancement of IT.

That industry really doesn’t suit humans at all.

As long as the line for receiving welfare is drawn, it will definitely happen…

If people who can work and support themselves start relying on welfare, then who will support that welfare?

Sometimes I forget to return things I borrowed from people, lose them, or forget to bring them, so it really caught me off guard.

Moreover, it’s not like I borrowed everything and kept it, so the fact that it’s just barely at a level of being somewhat average makes the expression kind of resonate.

I thought it was this, but after getting tested, it turned out I was just a lazy idiot.

>>67

I was told to take a different test because I’m not the same, and it made me depressed.

Is it that I’m a worthless piece of trash and depressed…?

>>71

There are many cases where depression creates holes in the mental fuel tank of motivation, so if it goes into remission, you might not be a loser anymore.

I don’t know about born losers.

Yamada usually puts on a facade of being a quirky rational person, but inside, they’re like this.

It’s like calling Mii-chan (weak).

>>69

The image in the thread is not Yamada!?

If I go to a proper hospital now, I’ll probably get diagnosed with ADHD, but can you receive disability pension for ADHD?

It’s not going well because there are disabilities that can’t be recognized.

I’m just an ordinary person who wants to believe that.

Ordinary people are also working hard, after all…

Having only ADHD makes it questionable to receive a Level 3 disability certificate; if one merely has traits, then as long as they choose the right workplace, particularly severe difficulties do not arise, so certification is not granted.

If there is a fact that difficulties arise from issues in upbringing due to ADHD, and that the ability to adapt to social life has not developed accordingly, then the level of welfare one can receive will change depending on the degree of those issues. However, it is unlikely that ADHD alone would qualify for pension-level assistance.

I have a level 3 disability certificate due to ADHD, but thanks to the efforts of my doctor and labor and social security attorney, I am receiving a pension.

I’m extremely grateful to the point of feeling like I’m dying…

If you have a disability certificate, you can receive various benefits.

After undergoing tests for TMS treatment, I was told that I wouldn’t receive financial compensation, so I am in a gray area.

Although the performance as a person has considerably improved, it does not mean that the past traumas like the ones Mii-chan experienced in the story will be erased, so additional measures such as counseling are necessary for that.

Many people say that men with developmental issues have no chance, but I often see men who just don’t have a formal diagnosis getting married.

>>77

Cowardly people with developmental disorders may be out of the picture, but I’ve often seen those who are the type to curse or resort to violence towards others having girlfriends.

Regardless of gender, as long as either intelligence or appearance is good, it’s totally manageable.

>>78

And generally, you become a more experienced person after entering society.

If you’re in such a difficult situation that you need welfare assistance, then it would be better to receive support, but there are also disadvantages to being officially recognized as a person with a disability, so if you think you can manage without it, it’s generally better to avoid it.

I am working for a company, but I clearly can’t do my job compared to those around me.

I thought for sure I had developmental disabilities, but after testing, nothing came up.

It would have been easier if there was just a name for the illness.

Simply having low abilities and being incompetent is the toughest…

At this level, it can fairly easily become acquired as well.

Parenting style of parents

You can easily get a diagnosis.

ADHD is almost entirely self-reported.

In a few years, the city employees who are shuffled between departments, reset their relationships, and don’t get fired even if they are incompetent are not suitable for the anonymous.

>>86

In a small municipality, bad reputation spreads quickly.

I think that for women with ADHD, being perceived as quirky can actually be an attractive trait, and if someone like Nina can soften her high pride through social experience, her future won’t be so bleak.

At least I was able to live until my situation was recognized as a hindrance by being able to escape.

It’s better than just miserably dying like Mii-chan, with nothing getting better…

It’s more about not being able to establish a long-term plan that leads to this.

I think it’s just my nature to get overwhelmed by immediate concerns and not be able to think in an organized way.

Well, she’s beautiful, so it’s okay.

The fact that you can become average if you try hard is actually frustrating.

My short-term memory was catastrophic, but it improved significantly after I started outsourcing it to a smartphone todo app, although it wasn’t widely available back then.